THAT
OLD BLACK MAGIC: Getting Specific about Magical Ethics
Sometimes
a cliché just wears out. It loses meaning or, worse, begins to say
things we never meant. I think it's time to retire the phrase
"black magic."
Saying
"black" when we mean "evil" is nasty nonsense. In
the first place, it reinforces the racist stereotypes that corrupt our
society. And that's not all. Whenever we say "black" instead
of "bad," we repeat again the big lie that darkness is wrong.
It isn't, as people who profess to love Nature should know. Darkness can
mean the inside of the womb, and the seed germinating within the Earth,
and the chaos that gives rise to all truly new beginnings. In our myths,
the one who goes down to the underworld returns with the treasure. Even
death, to the Wiccan understanding, is well-earned rest and comfort, and
a preparation for new birth. Using "black" to mean
"bad" is a blasphemy against the Crone.
But
even if we no longer speak of magic as "black" or
"white," we still need to think and speak about the ethics of
magic. Although black is not evil, some actions are evil. It simply is
not true that anything a person is strong enough or skilled enough to do
is OK, nor should doing what we will ever be the whole of the law for
us. We need a clear and specific vocabulary that enables us to choose
wisely what we will do.
We need
to replace the word "black," not simply to drop it. Some
Pagans have tried using "negative" as their substitute, but
that turned out to be confusing. For some people, "negative"
means any spell to diminish or banish anything. Some things - tumors,
depression, bigotry - are harmful. There's nothing wrong with a working
to get rid of bad stuff. "Left-handed" is another common term
for wrongful practice, very traditional, but just as ignorant,
superstitious and potentially harmful as the phrase "black
magic" itself. So in Proteus we tried using the word
"unethical." That's
a lot better - free of extraneous and false implications - but still too
vague.
Gradually,
I began to wonder whether using any one word, "black" or
"unethical" or whatever, might just be too general and too
subjective. Perhaps all I really tell a student that way is "Judy
doesn't like that."
I won't
settle for blind obedience. If ethical principles are going to survive
the twin tests of time and temptation, people need to understand just
what to avoid, and why. Even more important, they need a basis for
figuring out what to do instead. Especially when it comes to projective
magic.
Projective
magic means active workings, the kind in which we project our will out
into the world to make some kind of change.
This is what most people think of when they use the word magic at
all. Quite clearly, magic that may affect other people is magic that can
harm. This is the basis of the proverb "a Witch who can't hex can't
heal." Either you can raise and direct power, or you can't. Your
strength and skill can be used for blessing or for bane. The choice -
and the karma - are yours.
Just as
some people feel that strength and skill are their own justification,
others feel that any projective magic is always wrong - that it is a
distraction from our one true goal of union with the Divine or a willful
avoidance of the judgments of Karma. I think these attitudes are equally
inconsistent with basic Wiccan philosophy.
We are
taught that we will find the Lady within ourselves or not at all, that
the Mother of All has been with us from the beginning. We can't now
establish a union that was always there. All we can do, all we need to
do, is become aware. Knowing what it feels like to heal and empower,
again and again till you can't dismiss it as coincidence, is one of the
most powerful methods for awakening that awareness. It makes no sense to
say that the direct experience and exercise of our indwelling divinity
distracts from the Great Work.
Indeed,
it is this intimate connection between our magic and our
self-realization that our ethics protect. Wrongful use of magic will
choke the channel. No short term gain could ever compensate for that.
The
karmic argument against practical workings seems to me to arise from a
paranoid and defeatist world view. Even if we assume that the hardships
in this life were put there by the Gods for a reason, how can we be so
sure that the reason was punishment? Perhaps instead of penance to be
endured, our difficulties are challenges to be met. Coping and dealing
with our problems, learning magical and mundane skills, changing
ourselves and our world for the better - in short, growing up - is that
not what the Gods of joy and freedom want from us?
One of
the most radically different things about a polytheistic belief system
is that each one of us has the right, and the need, to choose which God/desses
will be the focus of our worship. We make these choices knowing that
whatever energies we invoke most often in ritual will shape our own
further growth. Spiritual practices are a means of self-programming. So
we are responsible for what we worship in a way that people who take
their One God as a given are not.
Think
about this: what kind of Power actively wants us to submit and suffer,
and objects when we develop skills to improve our own lives? Not a Being
I'd want to invite around too often!
So it
will not work for us to rule out projective magic completely; nor should
we. Total prohibitions are as thoughtless as total permissiveness or
blind obedience. Ethical and spiritual adults ought to be able to make
distinctions and well-reasoned choices. I offer here a start toward
analyzing what kinds of magic are not ethical for us.
Black
magic is magic done for the explicit purpose of causing harm to another
person. Usually the reason for it is revenge, and the rationalization is
justice. People who defend the practice of baneful magic often ask
"but wouldn't you join in cursing another Hitler?"
For
adults there is no rule without exceptions. If you think you would never
torture somebody, consider this scenario: in just half an hour the bomb
will go off, killing everybody in the city, and this terrorist knows
where it is hidden....
It's a
bad mistake to base your ethics on wildly unlikely cases, since none of
us honestly knows how we would react in that kind of extreme. Reasonable
ethical statements are statements about the behaviors we expect of
ourselves under normally predictable circumstances.
We all
get really angry on occasion, and sometimes with good cause. Then
revenge can seem like no more than simple justice. The anger is a
normal, healthy human reaction, and should not be repressed. But there's
no more need to act it out in magic than in physical violence. Instead
of going for revenge - and invoking the karmic consequences of baneful
magic - identify what you really need. For example, if your anger comes
from a feeling that you have been attacked or violated, what you need is
protection and safe space. Work for the positive goal, it's both more
effective and safer.
The
consequences of baneful magic are simply the logical, natural and
inevitable psychological effects. Even in that rare and extreme
situation when you may decide you really do have to use magic to give
Hitler a heart attack, it means you are choosing by the same choice to
accept the act's karma. Magical attack hurts the attacker first.
The
only way I know how to do magic is by use of my imagination, by
visualizing or otherwise actively imagining the end I want, and then
projecting that goal with the energy of emotional/physiological arousal.
All the techniques I know either help me to imagine more specifically or
to project more strongly. So the only way I can send out harm is by
first experiencing that harm within my own imagination. Instant and
absolute karma - the natural, logical and inevitable outcomes of our own
choices.
I would
think, also, that somebody dumb enough to do such workings often would
soon lose the ability to imagine specifically, as their sensitivity
dulled in sheer self-defense. That callusing effect is the reality
behind the pious proverb that says "if you abuse it, She'll take it
away."
But not
every other magician is ethical. Psychic attacks do happen. Should we
not defend ourselves? Of course we should. Leaving ourselves open to
psychic attack is no good example of the autonomy and assertiveness our
chosen Gods expect. But first, how can we be sure what we are
experiencing really is psychic attack?
The
fantasy of psychic attack is often a convenient excuse that allows us to
avoid looking at our own shortcomings. When lack of rest or improper
nutrition is the cause of illness, or a project isn't completed on time
because of distraction, it's a real temptation to put the blame outside
ourselves. Doing this too easily betrays our autonomy just as badly as
meek submission to attack does. Then, to compound matters, projected
blame becomes an excuse for unjust revenge -- and that is baneful magic
without excuse.
Once in
a rare while, some fool really does try to throw a whammy. It's hard to
predict when you might be targeted. Passive shields are always a good
idea. Like a mirror, these are totally inactive until somebody sends
unwelcome energy. Then a shield will protect you completely and bounce
back whatever is being thrown. You may not even know consciously when
your shield is working, but the result is perfect justice.
Perfect
justice; elegant and efficient. You won't hurt anybody out of paranoia
or by mistake. And perfect protection, even though we do not have
perfect knowledge.
Bindings,
according to some, are completely defensive. They do not harm, only
restrain. But imagine yourself being bound - perhaps by someone who
believes themselves justified - and notice the feeling of impotence and
frustration. Binding is bane from the viewpoint of the bound.
Even if
restraint were truly not harm, bindings are just plain poor protection.
They target a particular person or group. What if you suspect the wrong
person? Somebody harmless is bound and your actual attacker is not
bound. Shields, which cover you, not your supposed enemy, will cover you
against any enemy, known or unknown.
So,
baneful magic, besides being painful in the short run and crippling in
the long run, is never necessary. There are better ways of self
protection, and retribution is the business of the Gods.
Coercive
magic is magic that targets another person to make them give us
something we want or need. When most people think of the "Magic
Power of Witchcraft," this is what they have in mind.
The
spell to make the teacher give you a good grade, or the supervisor give
you a good evaluation, the spell to make the personnel officer or
renting agent choose you, the spell to attract that cute guy, all are
examples of coercive magic.
So,
what's wrong with high grades, a good job, a raise, a nice apartment and
a sexy lover? There's nothing at all wrong with those goals.
An it harm none, do what ye will. As long as nobody is hurt, go
for it! But don't strive toward good ends by coercive means.
Although
there is no deliberate intent to do harm or cause pain in coercive
workings, other people are treated as pawns. Their autonomy and their
interests are ignored.
For
Pagans, to do this is total hypocrisy. We profess to follow a religion
of immanence, one that places ultimate meaning and value in this life on
this Earth, here and now. We claim to see every living thing, humans
included, as a sacred manifestation. To do honor to this indwelling
divinity, we place great value on our own personal autonomy. How can we
then justify treating other people as objects for our use?
Nor is
it harmless. Forcing the will, controlling the independent judgment of
another human being, is harm. Once again, empathy leads to
understanding. Just imagine you are the person whose will and judgment
is being externally controlled. How does puppethood feel? From the
viewpoint of the target, the harm is palpable.
The
Pagan and Wiccan community as a whole is also hurt by coercive magic.
One of the main reasons people fear and hate Witches is our reputation
for controlling others. This is an old, dirty lie, created by the
invading religion in an attempt to discredit the indigenous competition.
Today, that reputation is mostly perpetuated by people who claim to be
"our own," who teach unethical coercive magic by mail order to
strangers whose ethical sensitivity cannot be evaluated long distance.
May the Gods preserve the Craft!
People
who are connected to the situation, but invisible to us, may also be
seriously hurt: the cute guy's fiancée, the other applicant for that
job. What you think of as a working designed only to bring good to
yourself can bring serious harm to innocent third parties, and the karma
of their pain will be on you.
That
isn't the only way an incomplete view of the situation can backfire.
There's a traditional saying that goes, "be careful about what you
ask for, because that's exactly what you will get." What if he is
gorgeous, but abusive? What if the apartment house is structurally
unsound? Better to state your legitimate needs (love in my life, a nice
place to live) and let the Gods deal with the details.
Finally,
remember this: asking specifically limits us to what we now know or what
we can now imagine. But I remember a time when I could not have imagined
being a priestess. What if the cute guy in the office is perfectly OK,
but your absolutely perfect soul-mate will be in the A&P next
Wednesday? The more specifically targeted your magic is, the more you
limit yourself to a life of tautology and missed chances.
And
beyond all the scenario spinning lies the instant karma, the natural,
logical and inevitable consequence of the act. It's more subtle than in
the case of baneful magic, since you are not trying to imagine and
project pain, but the damage is still real.
Every
time you treat another human being as a thing to be pushed and pulled
around for your convenience and pleasure, you are reinforcing your own
alienation. The attitude of being removed from and superior to other
people takes you out of community. As the attitude strengthens, so will
the behavior it engenders. The long term result of coercive magic, as
with mundane forms of coercion, is isolation and loneliness.
Are you
beginning to think that magic is useless? Did I just rule out all the
good stuff: love charms, job magic, spells for good grades? Not at all.
It is not only ethical but good for you to do lots of magic to improve
your own life. Whenever it works you will get more than you asked for -
because along with whatever you asked for comes one more experience of
your own effectiveness, your power-from-within.
Work on
yourself and your own needs and desires without targeting other people.
Then feel free! Ask for what you want. Visualize it and raise power for
it and act in accordance on the material plane. "I need a caring
and horny lover with a good sense of humor." "I want an
affordable apartment near where my coven meets with a tree outside my
window." "I need to be at my best when I take that exam next
week." Fulfill your dreams, and sometimes let the Gods surprise you
with gifts beyond your dreams.
Manipulative
magic is magic that targets another person for what we think is
"their own good," without regard for their opinions in the
matter. In the general culture around us, this is normal. As you read
this, you may have some friend or relative praying for you to be
"saved" from your evil Pagan ways and returned to the fold of
their preference. These people mean you well. By their own lights, they
are attempting to heal you. We work from a very different theological
base.
As
polytheists, we affirm the diversity of the divine and the divinity of
diversity. If there is no one, true, right and only way in general, do
we dare to assume that there is one obvious right choice for a person in
any given situation? If more than one choice may be "right,"
how can one person presume they know what another person would want
without asking them first?
No life
situation ever looks the same from outside as it does to the person who
is experiencing it. Are you sure you even have all the facts? Are you
fully aware of all the emotional entanglements involved? Perhaps that
illness is the only way they have of getting rest or getting attention.
Perhaps they stay in that dead end job because it leaves them more
energy to concentrate on their music. How do you know till you ask?
And, to
further complicate the analysis, it's possible that the person you are
trying to help would agree with you about the most desirable outcome,
but fears and hates the very idea of magic. They have as much of a right
to keep magic out of their own life, as you have to make it part of
yours!
Our
religion teaches that the sacred lives within each person, that we can
hear the Lady's voice for ourselves if we only learn to listen.
"... If that which you seek, you find not within yourself, you will
never find it without." In behavioral terms, when you take another
person's opinion about their own life seriously, you are reinforcing
them in thinking and choosing for themselves. The more you do this, the
more you encourage them to listen for the sacred inner voice.
Conversely,
whenever you ignore or override a person's feelings about their own
life, you are discounting those feelings and discouraging the kind of
internal attention that can keep the channels to wisdom open. Although
well-intentioned meddling may actually help somebody in the short run,
in the longer run it trains them to dependency and indecision. Few
intentional banes damage as severely. This is especially true because
even the untrained and unaware will instinctively resist overt ill-will,
but in our culture we are trained to receive "expert"
interference with gratitude.
Check
by asking yourself, "who's in charge here?" The answer to that
will tell you whether you are basically empowering or undermining the
person you intend to help.
And, as
usual, the effects go both ways. The same uninvited intervention that
fosters passivity in the recipient will foster arrogance in the
"rescuer." It's control and ego-inflation masked as
generosity. It's very seductive.
If you
make this a habit, you will come to believe that other people are
incompetent and powerless. Then what happens when you need help? Your
contempt will make it impossible for you to see what resources surround
you. Manipulative magic is ultimately just as alienating as coercive
magic – and it's a much prettier trap!
The way
to avoid the trap is to do no working affecting another person without
that person's explicit permission. Proteans are pledged to this, and I
think it's a good idea for anybody.
You
don't need to wait passively for the person to ask. It's perfectly all
right to offer, as long as you are willing to sometimes accept
"no" for your answer. For the person who believes s/he is
unworthy or who is simply too shy, offering help is itself a gift.
Taking their opinion seriously is an even greater gift: respect.
The
rule is that whenever it is in any way physically possible to ask, you
must ask. If it's not important enough to pay long distance charges, it
certainly isn't important enough to violate a friend's autonomy. If
asking is literally not possible, then and only then, here are a few
exceptions:
Sometimes
an illness or injury happens very suddenly, and the person is
unconscious or in a coma before you could possibly ask them. If you know
that this person is generally comfortable with magic, you may do
workings to keep their basic body systems working and allow the normal
healing process the time it needs. If they are opposed to magic, for
whatever reason, back off!
Traditionally,
an unconscious person is understood to be temporarily out of their body.
Maintaining their body in habitable condition is preserving their
option, not choosing for them. Doing maintenance magic requires a lot of
sensitivity. At some point, the time may come when you should stop and
let the person go on. Be sure to use some kind of divination to help you
stay aware.
This is
a hard road. It may be your lover, your child, lying there helpless. Any
normal human being would be tempted to drag them back, to force them to
stay regardless of what is truly best for them, regardless of what they
want. Don't repress these feelings, they do no harm, even though your
actions might. It takes great strength and non-possessive love to
recognize that your loved one knows their own need. You may be calling
them back to a crippled body, to a life of pain. You may be calling them
back from the ecstasy of the Goddess. And this is no more your right
than it would be to murder them.
If a
person is temporarily not reachable, you may charge up a physical
object, such as an appropriate talisman or some incense. When you
present it to them, give them a full explanation. It is their choice
whether to keep or use your gift. By interposing an object between the
magic and the target in this way, you can work the magic in Circle, with
the coven's power to draw on, and still get the person's permission
before the magic is triggered.
With
all these rules about permission, perhaps it would be safer to work only
on ourselves? Safer, yes, but not nearly as good. If you have
permission, you may do any working for another person that you might do
for yourself. Coercive magic is just as unacceptable when somebody else
asks for it, and you may not do manipulative magic on your friend's
mother, even at your friend's request. The permission must come from the
magic's intended target and from nobody else. With proper permission,
working magic for others is good for all concerned.
Every
act of magic has two effects. One is the direct effect, the healing or
prosperity working or whatever was intended. The other is a minute
change in the mind and the heart of the person who does the working.
Everything we experience, and especially everything that we do in a
wholehearted and focused way - the only way effective magic can be done
- changes us. Each experience leaves its tiny trace, but the traces are
cumulative. They mold the person we will become. Our karma is our
choice.
Instant
karma can also be good karma. Logical, natural and inevitable outcomes
can be desirable. When you send out good, what you send it with is love.
Love is the driving force. When you let love flow freely, the channel
down to love's wellspring stays clear and open. When you send out good,
you direct it along the web of person-to-person connection, and
awareness of that web is reinforced. The totality of that web is the
basis of community.
When
you send out good it feels good. In the same way that sending out bane
requires imagining pain, sending out blessing requires imagining
pleasure, strongly and specifically. And, when you send out good, just
the same as when you call it to yourself, you reinforce your sense of
effectiveness in the world. Blessings grow in the fertile ground of
mutuality, to the benefit of all.
A
pattern is becoming visible. In baneful magic, the magician intends to
harm the target. In coercive magic, the intent toward the target is
neutral. In manipulative magic, the magician actually means the target
well. But no matter how different the intent may be, in all three cases
magic is done to affect another person without that person's permission.
In all three cases, the target, the practitioner and ultimately the
community are all hurt. And in all three cases, there are safer and more
effective ways to reach the valid goals that we mean to aim for.
So,
perhaps there is a descriptive word that covers all wrongful magical
workings after all. How
about "non-consensual" or "invasive" magic?
There's
one thing left to examine: the paradox of making rules to protect
personal autonomy.
If we
make some of our choices as a community, by discussing things together
and arriving at a common understanding about what magical behaviors are
acceptable among us, then we choose and shape the kind of community we
become. Or we could give up our right to choose, because we feel we
shouldn't tell each other what to do. Some people believe that a refusal
to set community standards promotes personal autonomy. It never has
before.
Appeals
to individual rights can be real seductive. None of us wants Big Brother
looking over our shoulders, telling us what to do "for our own
good." For Witches in particular - members of a religious minority
with bad image problems - this is a very legitimate fear. But make sure
when somebody talks about "rights" without specifying
something like "religious practice rights" or "the right
to consensual sex," that you find out just what "rights"
they mean.
Rhetoric
about "rugged individualism" has been used in recent history
to fast talk us into letting the rich or strong dominate all our lives.
Without anything to stop them, they can destroy the forestland, or deny
jobs or apartments to "cultists." Personal autonomy for most
of us is diminished when we allow that.
Magic
can be used for dominance, just the same as muscle or money. There is no
difference, ethically, between the magical and the mundane. We are not
obligated to tolerate power trippers among us. We are not obligated to
run our own community by the slogans and ground rules of the dominator
culture.
Thinking
about "rights," or about "laws" for that matter, in
the abstract leads to "all or nothing" thinking - immature and
slogan driven. I don't think we should ever "just say"
anything. We need a deeper and more mature analysis. We need to ask
questions like "right to do what?" and "law against
what?" We need to get away from absolutes and to look in practical
terms at the advantages or disadvantages of our choices.
Once
more, our religion itself shows us the way to steer between the false
choices. "An it harm none, do what you will."
What a person does that affects only herself - magical or mundane
- is truly nobody's business but her own. For example, consensual sexual
behavior affects only the participants. But toxic waste dumping affects
everybody in the watershed.
As long
as we look at behavior in terms of private choices or individual will,
we obscure the distinction that really makes a difference. If we're
serious about wanting to give each of us the most possible control over
our own lives, then decisions should be made by all the people affected
by the behavior – not just by the people acting.
As soon
as another person is magically targeted, that other person is affected.
If we allow such targeting without consent, we are not supporting
personal autonomy, we are subverting it!
When
the behavior begins to affect us all - for example when real estate
development threatens the salt marshes, and ultimately the air supply -
or, very specifically, when invasive magic erodes the trust we need to
work together - then we have a right to protect ourselves as a
community. No ideology should turn us into passive victims when
something we hold precious stands to be destroyed.
Invasive
magic hurts the target first, and soon the actor, but in the long run it
hurts all of us. It's been so long since we've been able to meet
together, share our knowledge, help one another in need. Pagan community
is very new, and still very fragile. It can only grow in safe space.
The
People of this Land forbade skirmishes around the pipestone quarries,
keeping that sacred source open to all. Otherwise, no sane person would
go there, and the Old Ways would wither. For much the same reason, we
cannot tolerate poppets in our council meetings.
An
atmosphere of coercion and manipulation and magical duels does not
nurture community. Eventually, for self protection, the gentle will
either change or go away. We could lose what we have misguidedly refused
to protect.
As
within, so without: our karma is our choice.
-
by Judy Harrow